When in life do you decide to become a hater? Sure we are all human and have hated on someone in the past but not everyone puts the effort to talk about it to other people on a daily basis. That is a female trait that you should work towards removing from your character. After all, you wouldn’t want to be thought of as a b*tch. Another question I ask myself is why do you hate? An easy answer would be because you are just jealous but it’s much deeper then that. It’s for the attention! Going against the majority usually leads to conflict. During your moment of hate, you take the attention off of the subject and put it upon yourself. Hate is sometimes done in a form of a joke. An example would be someone congratulating another person upon the purchase of their car and you the hater, saying “I didn’t think anyone could put that many miles on a 96 let alone an 06.”
Do you guys/girls realize that you are hating while you hate? I would have to say no you don’t. I never heard a hater admit to hating while in the act. Before you make your next negative comment, I want you to ask yourself “why?” “Why do you hate that person???” If you can’t think of a legit reason then chances are, you’re hating! “I just don’t like it/him” would also be a clear indication of hate. Now that you know your being a hater, what is it that you prefer or would do differently in regards to the thing you are hating on? If you can’t think of a legit reason, you actually like what you are hating on but your too jealous to accept the fact that it’s not your’s.
Cock blocking is a form of hate that I don’t understand. The only time it is allowed is to prevent a hommie from getting with a fat b*tch when he is drunk. What I can’t stand is when a man cock blocks another man that he doesn’t even know. That is against all the sacred unspoken “man rules.” Whats the point of it? Usually you have no chance with the girl to begin with so why ruin it for someone else? I guess it is just apart of your game. Get a quick laugh out of the girl by taking shots at the next man. If that’s the case, consider stepping your game up. The girl will eventually realize how low your self-esteem is and what a jealous person you are. She will leave you for some dude she met off of myspace or adult friend finder.
I often get asked on how I deal with “haters” and what I have to say about them. Honestly, I usually don’t even notice them most of the time because I am so in my zone that another man’s words can not take me out of it. What I do makes me happy. I could care less what a hater has to say. The Ying-Yang basically states that energy has to be transferred. If someone is happy, another person will be pissed off as a result. Hate is apart of life that we have to deal with. If you start defending your self by taking jabs back at the person, you are just feeding into the cycle. Just smile back at them. That is the worst thing you can possibly do. “I see you but I really don’t because your opinion holds as much weight as a feather” is what you are basically saying with your grin.
Hate just keeps you behind in life. Instead of using that negative energy on another person, convert it to positive energy by asking yourself “how can I get like him?” From there, set goals and do what it takes to achieve them. You may not have it as easy as the person whose footsteps you choose to follow but that just means the end result will be so much more rewarding. Keep your head up.